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Just What Are You Trying To Tell Us?

This evening the local news featured a piece on several class action lawsuits that you, too, can “get in on.” The reporter mentioned that you probably should have actually purchased said products, which ranged from sunscreen to dog food to just about anything from Trader Joe’s, but the tone and message of the piece was “hey folks, these companies are giving out free money so hop on board and get your piece of the pie.”moneytree

Over and over the amounts that people could claim, without any receipts, flashed across the screen. The way they presented it made it sound like free money. I can imagine a person who is pinching pennies might think, “these companies don’t know whether or not I actually bought their product, so what would it hurt to make a claim?” After all, twenty dollars here and thirty-five dollars there can really make a difference when your family is struggling.

What are these suits about, anyway? Well, the dog food suit actually stemmed from some harm coming to some pets. That doesn’t sound unreasonable, but why open it up to just anyone who claims to have bought the food? Then there was the one from the fancy flip flop company. Apparently they claimed some health benefits that they shouldn’t have. Really, people? You’re going to sue a flip flop company because your feet still have issues after wearing flip flops? How is this sane? It’s like the person suing McDonald’s after spilling hot coffee. Coffee is supposed to be hot, isn’t it? You just have to be careful and use some common sense.

I believe we’re too quick to look for blame and to try to get something for nothing. I didn’t buy that sunscreen. I won’t put in a claim for the eight dollars or whatever it was, even if I don’t need a receipt. I know easy money is hard to pass up, but Karma’s a bitch, so I don’t mess with it. Do the right thing because it’s the right thing to do. Is the world black and white? I don’t think so. You need to feed your babies, you need to keep safe, but do you really need twenty dollars from Trader Joe’s because they may have mislabeled some of their products? I doubt it.


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Five More Simple Things That Make Me Happy

1. Rediscovering my i-Tunes library, which I thought was lost in the cloud forever. Hello Barenaked Ladies, Goldfrapp, Shiny Toy Guns, and Big Audio Dynamite. It’s great to hear from you again.itunes_giftcard

2. Laughing a genuine belly laugh, like I did today with good friends.

3. Excellent service at a restaurant, any restaurant.

4. Accepting genuine compliments about my son from his supervisors at his summer job.

5. Being able to stay up as late as I want without having to worry about an early alarm. I am SO not a morning person!


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Back To Square One

sorry-board-gameI thought my house was sold. After all, I accepted their offer, and they were paying cash, so I didn’t have to worry about them qualifying for a loan. It was a slam dunk. Sure, the offer was less than I expected, but I could still make it work. I was going to make it work. In fact I found not one but two potential new homes that would work for my family. I was ready to go.

Then, yesterday, I got the news. The buyers cancelled. They cited the inspection as the reason, but I don’t believe that’s really the case for a couple of reasons. First, they said the air conditioning didn’t function below 78 degrees. I actually laughed when I heard that, because just the night before we were freezing and it was set to 76. Secondly, they didn’t ask us to repair anything. Usually when something shows up on an inspection you ask for it to be fixed or for an allowance. They didn’t ask for either. I believe they found a house they liked better and used the inspection as an out. That’s okay. Disappointing, but okay.

I took a deep breath, examined my motives for wanting to sell in the first place, and decided to make the listing active again. Yes, we are on the market again. We spent yesterday giving the house a good deep cleaning, and we went to Home Depot for some new flowers (the others died… oops). By mid-afternoon the place looked great and we had two showings scheduled. Here we go again.

I’m told this is prime time for sales, with school out for the summer. I can do this. The right buyer will come. I just need to shake it off, put on a big smile, and stay positive. So, on that note, I’m off to touch up the bathroom. There are still two days left in this weekend.