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Snarky Bloggers Need Not Apply


Actually “reply” probably makes more sense, but I didn’t want you, dear reader, to think I was talking about you. I wasn’t. I was actually talking to the “helpful” bloggers who want to rid the world of blog posts they deem unworthy. I’ve seen lots of snarky and sarcastic comments about blogs that I don’t think are helpful at all. Maybe I’m missing the point. Perhaps they have been offered as satire. But I sort of don’t think so.

Newborn_infantTelling new parents not to write about their babies is advice that’s likely to fall on deaf ears.  Their new child is a wonder, and they want everyone to know about the amazing transformation they are participating in every day.

Not everyone who writes a blog is looking to be the next _________ (fill in your favorite writer here). Many people blog to keep in touch with far away family and friends, others do it just to get all those words that are swirling around inside of their heads out for some fresh air. We don’t all wish to be critiqued, even if we do hope to be read.

I understand that the internet is a public forum and whatever you put out there is fair game, but to offer criticism in the guise of advice seems unfair to me. It’s like your mama told you, if you don’t have something nice to say (or at least respectful and productive), then keep your big yap shut. New parents will tell you about every little thing their genius progeny does, from his rolling tummy to back prowess to her revolting sensitivity to dairy products.

New parents aren’t the only ones who do this. I’m a quilter. I read a lot of quilt blogs. If I were a more involved quilter I’m sure I would write many more posts about quilting. nearly-empty-spools-of-thread-and-old-thread-e1290494253202Would my experience of running out of thread in the middle of a big project be earth shattering? If it is, it’s only in my eyes. Still, I may wish to blog about the situation. Does that make me a bad or boring blogger? Not automatically. You would still have to read my post to find out. If you’re interested, that is.

What it boils down to is this: I think readers can judge for themselves what content appeals to them. Telling bloggers that there are hard and fast rules of blogging seems counterproductive to me. Blogging allows for  instant publishing for the people, by the people. It’s very democratic, and as such you, dear reader, have the option of reading along, participating in the discussion, or passing any particular content by. Give the people choice, I say, and keep writing those cute baby stories. People really do read them.

Author: BulgingButtons

I'm a middle aged woman doing the things that middle aged women do and trying not to beat myself up. I'm living the life I choose with the man I love, the grown up son who impresses me all the time, and the most adorable pup ever rescued from the euthanasia list. We live in the heat of the Southwest, where I regularly sweat through my Lane Bryant bras.

9 thoughts on “Snarky Bloggers Need Not Apply

  1. Well put…and what a gorgeous baby.

  2. Well said! I used to try to avoid writing about religion and politics, but my faith always comes out. Politics not so much, but believe me if I get the hankerin’ to write about politics I will. I love the posts about the littles, and I love quilting posts too. I am getting ready to start a new quilt today, and I might just post about it. (It’s just my second quilt ever.)
    Visiting via Blogher NaBloPoMo!

  3. I agree–I don’t understand people’s reasoning. I figure if someone doesn’t like what I write, they don’t have to read it. There are so many blogs out there, of varied content, they can always go find another one. I am so pleased that I have followers, but really, I write for myself when it comes down to it. I have always written, and now I have the ability to send in out into the universe. So beware! lol

  4. I just wrote a post about this very topic yesterday…well in a way. I’ve been pondering the idea of changing my blog name to appeal more to my readers, but I’m going to continue to write about the various subjects I want to talk about without changing the name. I don’t want to adhere to any blog rules, I just want to write, I love writing. Challenges and daily posts are different, but as far as my content, I want to write about everything that interests me.

  5. It is the best time to make some plans for the future and it is time to be happy.

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