This former daily prompt made me really stop and think. What was the last lie I told and why did I tell it? Hmmmm. Immediately I figured it must have been in school with my students. Little fibs happen all the time. Usually they’re to keep things running smoothly in the classroom and to create the outcome that I want. For example, I pretend to randomly choose a student to contribute to the discussion, but really have my victim (uh, I mean volunteer) chosen ahead of time.
This type of orchestrating allows teachers to avoid situations like the one my colleague nearly found herself in as her class chose a nickname. They worked hard at brainstorming, and one student came up with the fabulous name, “Mrs. H’s Hooters.” Too bad that name accidentally got left off the ballot as they voted. Clearly Mrs. H fibs too. Sometimes it’s a matter of survival.
Aside from school, I’m a pretty honest person. I don’t lie about my age or my weight (although I might prefer to avoid the topic of exact pounds). I tell the doctor all the things I’ve done that I shouldn’t, and all the things I haven’t done that I should. I fill out my taxes accurately, and I even stop at the stop signs in parking lots when nobody is around to see me.
When it comes right down to it, I think I mostly lie to myself. I lie to myself every morning as I look in the mirror. I tell myself that I look pretty good, but as soon as a see a photo I cringe. I lie to myself about how much time I’m willing to spend on certain things, about how interested I am in certain projects. I lie to myself when I say yes to projects that I don’t have the time or energy to pursue. That type of self deception is foolish and ultimately pricey. It is also damaging and gets me into trouble. It has gotten me to a point where my health and well being have been compromised. I’ve decided that it’s time to be brutally honest with myself. If I won’t do it, nobody will.
September 17, 2013 at 1:20 pm
September 22, 2013 at 6:57 pm
I need to to thank you for this wonderful read!! I definitely loved every bit of it. I’ve got you bookmarked to check out new things you post…
September 22, 2013 at 7:50 pm
I’m so glad you enjoyed it. Thanks for taking the time to comment.
April 13, 2014 at 8:08 pm
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some of the post I realized it’s new to me. Anyways,
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checking back often!